January 17, 2020

One thing I've learned from years of working in the dating industry - specifically matchmaking - is that while opposites often attract, compatibility is usually what endures.

Here are some of my thoughts on attraction from the female perspective (along with our gracious...

August 9, 2019

I am now offering free phone coaching and feedback every Friday for anyone in need of advice, guidance or support! Please book time with me here

December 18, 2018

We never got to lay in the hammock I bought him for his 36th birthday.  Perhaps never is too strong of a word — technically we did lay in it for two minutes after we assembled it on his kitchen floor, making sure it wouldn’t topple over with both of us in it. It didn’t...

May 12, 2018

When I was a teen, I would always laugh at the anti-aging advice my mom would give me like: "always moisturize your neck" or "sleep with a bra on so your boobs never sag".  (True story, lol). 

But her best advice about aging gracefully that I valued the most,...

April 14, 2017

Every once in a while, a client says something to me that strikes a chord. Something that I literally have to ask them to pause for a second so I can write down what they just said.

The other night was one of those nights. 

While out with a client, I asked her what she t...

October 26, 2016

Have you ever wondered how some men are “naturally good” with women while others can’t even manage to get a phone number? While some of you may think it is all about looks and the size of your wallet, let me remind you that attraction is not a choice. If it were a logi...

October 26, 2016

I’m sorry if this comes as a shock or sounds judgmental, but – when it comes to dating – women are far pickier than men. This is one of the major reasons many men feel that it’s so hard to meet women. And if you can’t ever seem to get a relationship to romantically evo...

August 31, 2016

There are two types of people in this world: move makers, and move fakers.

Sadly, this behavioral disparity becomes even more evident when it comes to dating and relationships. Suffice to say, if you're not making shit happen in your life, then you're either wasting you...

July 21, 2016

Consider this saying: “You date what you create.”

By virtue of habit, it’s easy to forget who you are dating. So many of us are used to creating a construct of who we want a person to be, that we sometimes forget who that person actually is.

When you glorify the per...

March 17, 2016



In honor of my 33rd birthday, otherwise known as the "Christ Year”, and the fact that 33 is my favorite number, it felt appropriate to reflect on some important things I’ve learned in life thus far. Here are 33 of them. 



1. A relationship should bring out the best i...

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Hi, I’m Antonia! I’m a Writer and Relationship Expert, here in the heart of New York City. I am fascinated by people and their odyssey through life and love. I think most people don't give themselves enough credit as to how strong and wise they actually are. My aim is to change that.

2015 LoveTapped Inc.